Friday, July 27, 2012

The #1 Question This Summer


Here’s what I hate: the #1 question this summer:  “What are we going to do tomorrow?”

Ugh.  I don’t know how teachers put up with 20 kids all asking questions like this.

This summer has actually been really lovely.  We’ve had plenty of fun things to do.  I also made the brilliant (if I do say so myself) declaration that if anyone says they are bored, they have to start cleaning the baseboards.  Therefore, no one has uttered that phrase all summer and my baseboards remain dirty as always. 

My girls honestly haven’t really had the chance to utter that complaint of boredom because at the beginning of the summer, we came up with a list of things we wanted to do.  I typed them up on a bland piece of white printer paper and stuck it to the fridge.  (This is probably part of my subconscious rebellion against cute, Pinteresty-type lists like several of my friends made for their Summer Fun Ideas.  Things like a tin pail with clothes pins stuck on it with activities written on the clothes pins.  Cute, right?  Nope!  No cute lists for me.  I opted for boring white paper with a type-written list.  I didn’t even do fancy font!  Oh well.  I digress.)

Anyway,  here are some of the items on our list~

Library (this was actually suggested by me and not really my girls, but they loved it every time we went.)

Bowling

Roller Skating

Pancake Pantry with Daddy

Water balloons

Painting

Play dates with friends

Lemonade stand

Sleepovers with friends

Pool!

Go to the Beach

Find a secret place at a park

Go to “See Rock City”

We’ve done nearly everything on our list!  We’ve also done things that were not on our list.  We have had a super fun, yet relaxing summer.  I am grateful.

However, each evening all my girls want to know is: “what are we going to do tomorrow???”  Or, they complain specifically that we have not done a lemonade stand yet. 

Yesterday, I sort of snapped at Abbey when she mentioned something we hadn’t done yet.  “Abigail, I am sick of you asking what else we are going to do and I am frustrated that you keep asking about things we haven’t done instead of being thankful for what we have done!” 

After the oh-so-wise phrase was out of my mouth, I heard it echoing back to me.

I mean, how often am I asking God for the next blessing?  Actually, I tell him what I want to do next (at least my girls usually ask me what is next).  I also complain to God if He hasn’t come through quickly enough on something I’ve been expecting.  (Just like Abigail with the lemonade stand).

Instead of thanking Him for all the good He’s given me each day, (not to mention weeks upon weeks of numerous blessings over my lifetime), I whine about what I want to do next.

So, each night before I go to bed, instead of (or at least before) making my to-do list for the next day, I am going to make a thank you list for all the lovely things God has given me today.  Things like coffee, and giggly (healthy!) girls, swimming pools up the street, air conditioning, family movies, bagels, strength to carry on, imaginations that take us to Narnia, and a camera to capture all the fun…

Last night when I tried this, I fell asleep before I made my list of what I wanted to do the next day.  But, I fell asleep with a full heart and a smiling face.

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